Major trigger day came and went


So approximately 5-6 days ago a few years ago occurred an event that was the catalyst for this blog starting, the day when I found out my wife was having affairs.  A day or two ago is when we found out she was bipolar; it would be many, many more months before I could fully understand what that meant.

So I’m proud to say that I wasn’t even thinking about the “Discovery Day” anymore and instead concentrated on something much more important: breathing and enjoying my family.  Here’s to hoping I can break the chains that have enslaved me around Christmas time.  The first time she had a physical affair was 27 December, the day before our wedding anniversary.  I don’t blame her anymore; I get it, I have an understanding of what happened and why.  Doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt, but I get it.