The wife and I had a conversation last week and we’ve decided that we’re going to try “swinging”. For those not familiar with swinging, it is some variation of having sexual contact with another person, persons, group, all sorts of neat stuff. We had our first meet with a couple this past weekend, the entire point of it was to get to know them, let them get to know us, and enjoy each other’s company. They were pretty cool and we’ve planned to get together in the future. At this point, we’re only meeting people as couples, but willing to accept a single female. We’re open to full swap, soft swap (including oral), and same room sex. That seems like a nice way to start this adventure.
Some of you may wonder what the difference between this and affairs? I wondered why I would not be ok with the affairs, but ok with this as well. The primary difference: trust and consent. I consent to this and can trust her.