With all this swinging, how are Pillars and bRaving doing?


We are doing fine.  Thus far we’ve been able to cultivate an atmosphere of trust, respect, open communication and a little bit of mutual privacy so that we can talk to individual play partners; but we also offer the ability to view the other’s phone and see what’s going on.  Complete honesty.

The only problem we’re running into is finding a sitter that will come here and “watch” the kids while they sleep for a reasonable fee.  Couples to play with aren’t hard to find, and we’ve found 2 gems in the last 2 weeks.  I’d guess the other problem was the first couple we played with wanted to know about the 2nd, because the 2nd was really good.  Both pale in comparison to the 3rd, which deserve their own blogpost for that 3 hours of epicness.

Play time…


We’ve played with 2 couples so far.  We’re starting to be good friends with the first couple, and really good friends with the second.  We had our first play time a few weeks ago, our second play time was this past monday evening.  We enjoyed couple 2 so much (and they enjoyed us) that we’re getting back together this Sunday.

An interesting note that you might not consider: transitioning from just meeting to hanging out is easy, but going from hanging out to sexy time can be awkward for inexperienced couples like us lol

The girls handled it well, since my wife is heteroflexible (bi, but decidedly can’t do without the dick), the girls made it happen.  After they kissed for a minute in another room, they came back in, turned on music and grinded danced provocatively on each other before my wife went to him and his wife came to me to do the same.  After that it was a few short minutes and blowjobs from going to separate rooms.

After some fun time alone it evolved into the girls taking turns having threesomes with us before his wife came back to finish me off.

It was an amazing experience that no blog post can do justice.