Found a couple more rare than a unicorn…


Found a couple that lives 5 minutes away, is a little bit younger than us, and is pretty much open to anything we want to do.  We met them on a saturday and let our kids play in an indoor jungle-gym place that I wish existed when I was their age.  We hit things off good; the next night they came over and we all played in the same room.  Little awkwardness, we were their second full swap couple, and the first time they swapped sober.  The husband literally said, we’re here, do what you want with us.  There were a couple of bro-fists between he and I as we both had our way with the other’s wife.

Two nights later we evolved a few rules.  Pretty risky, but has turned out well.  So rules we bent: solo play, protection, and babysitters.  We’ve played in separate rooms before and generally prefer it, but I won’t deny that it can be hot seeing my wife do what she likes, and there can be some fun and funny moments when everybody plays as a group.  The protection rule was something that we thought about eventually offering to a couple that we wanted to be FWB with, and turns out that they were looking for the same thing.  So we offered it to them, and left it up to them; I was in for a treat that evening.  She came over, we kissed and groped, then she went down on me for a minute and told me she wanted to ride me on the couch and asked me if I needed to get anything.  When I said “only if you want me to” she said no, and so I insisted we let my wife and her husband know so they could enjoy the same.  Holy shit.  Fantastic.  On the babysitters: they are expensive when you have 3 kids.  We waited until kids went to sleep, locked the bedroom door and stayed fairly quiet.  Turns out they aren’t affected and neither were we.

Next night (last night) was a real treat.  Next night my play partner had a bad day, and we were supposed to do another solo swap but she wasn’t feeling up to it.  I’d had a migraine all day and taken my maximum dosage of vicodin, so I was pretty grumpy just from all the pain medication.  Her husband joked “Do I have to send ********* over?” to which I replied I wouldn’t say no.  That started a 10 minute conversation between him and my wife, which resulted in wives driving to opposite houses.  His wife spent the night with me, and we didn’t go to sleep until 2, since I had to get up at 5.  My wife got to enjoy him for a few hours longer, and came home at 615’ish.

She gives me super intense orgasms that are pretty messy.  Everybody is having fun and wants more.

We’ve expressed that we aren’t interested in playing with anybody other than them and things continue to go awesome.  We’ve got a 5-day length of time coming in August where our kids are out of town with a friend, so I wonder what we will do with all that time…

Until then though, I have to travel to San Diego for work next week.

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Play time…


We’ve played with 2 couples so far.  We’re starting to be good friends with the first couple, and really good friends with the second.  We had our first play time a few weeks ago, our second play time was this past monday evening.  We enjoyed couple 2 so much (and they enjoyed us) that we’re getting back together this Sunday.

An interesting note that you might not consider: transitioning from just meeting to hanging out is easy, but going from hanging out to sexy time can be awkward for inexperienced couples like us lol

The girls handled it well, since my wife is heteroflexible (bi, but decidedly can’t do without the dick), the girls made it happen.  After they kissed for a minute in another room, they came back in, turned on music and grinded danced provocatively on each other before my wife went to him and his wife came to me to do the same.  After that it was a few short minutes and blowjobs from going to separate rooms.

After some fun time alone it evolved into the girls taking turns having threesomes with us before his wife came back to finish me off.

It was an amazing experience that no blog post can do justice.

So Swinging…


The wife and I had a conversation last week and we’ve decided that we’re going to try “swinging”.  For those not familiar with swinging, it is some variation of having sexual contact with another person, persons, group, all sorts of neat stuff.  We had our first meet with a couple this past weekend, the entire point of it was to get to know them, let them get to know us, and enjoy each other’s company.  They were pretty cool and we’ve planned to get together in the future.  At this point, we’re only meeting people as couples, but willing to accept a single female.  We’re open to full swap, soft swap (including oral), and same room sex.  That seems like a nice way to start this adventure.

Some of you may wonder what the difference between this and affairs?  I wondered why I would not be ok with the affairs, but ok with this as well.  The primary difference: trust and consent.  I consent to this and can trust her.