We are doing fine. Thus far we’ve been able to cultivate an atmosphere of trust, respect, open communication and a little bit of mutual privacy so that we can talk to individual play partners; but we also offer the ability to view the other’s phone and see what’s going on. Complete honesty.
The only problem we’re running into is finding a sitter that will come here and “watch” the kids while they sleep for a reasonable fee. Couples to play with aren’t hard to find, and we’ve found 2 gems in the last 2 weeks. I’d guess the other problem was the first couple we played with wanted to know about the 2nd, because the 2nd was really good. Both pale in comparison to the 3rd, which deserve their own blogpost for that 3 hours of epicness.