Found a couple that lives 5 minutes away, is a little bit younger than us, and is pretty much open to anything we want to do. We met them on a saturday and let our kids play in an indoor jungle-gym place that I wish existed when I was their age. We hit things off good; the next night they came over and we all played in the same room. Little awkwardness, we were their second full swap couple, and the first time they swapped sober. The husband literally said, we’re here, do what you want with us. There were a couple of bro-fists between he and I as we both had our way with the other’s wife.
Two nights later we evolved a few rules. Pretty risky, but has turned out well. So rules we bent: solo play, protection, and babysitters. We’ve played in separate rooms before and generally prefer it, but I won’t deny that it can be hot seeing my wife do what she likes, and there can be some fun and funny moments when everybody plays as a group. The protection rule was something that we thought about eventually offering to a couple that we wanted to be FWB with, and turns out that they were looking for the same thing. So we offered it to them, and left it up to them; I was in for a treat that evening. She came over, we kissed and groped, then she went down on me for a minute and told me she wanted to ride me on the couch and asked me if I needed to get anything. When I said “only if you want me to” she said no, and so I insisted we let my wife and her husband know so they could enjoy the same. Holy shit. Fantastic. On the babysitters: they are expensive when you have 3 kids. We waited until kids went to sleep, locked the bedroom door and stayed fairly quiet. Turns out they aren’t affected and neither were we.
Next night (last night) was a real treat. Next night my play partner had a bad day, and we were supposed to do another solo swap but she wasn’t feeling up to it. I’d had a migraine all day and taken my maximum dosage of vicodin, so I was pretty grumpy just from all the pain medication. Her husband joked “Do I have to send ********* over?” to which I replied I wouldn’t say no. That started a 10 minute conversation between him and my wife, which resulted in wives driving to opposite houses. His wife spent the night with me, and we didn’t go to sleep until 2, since I had to get up at 5. My wife got to enjoy him for a few hours longer, and came home at 615’ish.
She gives me super intense orgasms that are pretty messy. Everybody is having fun and wants more.
We’ve expressed that we aren’t interested in playing with anybody other than them and things continue to go awesome. We’ve got a 5-day length of time coming in August where our kids are out of town with a friend, so I wonder what we will do with all that time…
Until then though, I have to travel to San Diego for work next week.