It’s been a little over a year since I started this blog, by over a year I mean only by a few days. Last year in April I celebrated the life, and mourned the loss, of 3 Marines on the 15th, found out my wife was having multiple affairs on the 16th, and half of my family forgot or didn’t say anything to me on my birthday, the 28th. Over time this blog evolved into more of a personal venting and thought-discharging space. That isn’t a bad thing, it just means that the blog has been what I needed it to be when I needed it to be different. While there are a number of bloggers that I’ve received constructive input and conversation from, Samantha Baker and Beautiful Mess have been some of the most supportive people in my recovery as a betrayed husband, through blogging and participation on Samantha’s website/forum After The Betrayal.
So, what is in store for the next year? I’ll change things as I see fit. Starting with posting more. I get on WordPress every few days now, which is a huge change from 10+ times a day when I first started blogging. I hope to write some more posts about my endeavor to learn more about bRaving Bipolar’s illness, and what is unique to her as someone who “has the bipolar”.
This post wouldn’t be complete without thanking bRaving Bipolar for her continued commitment to me and all the progress we’ve made. There have been abrasive periods of time, but we’ve done a good job in therapy of understanding what made it abrasive in the first place, our great communication.